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Training programs organized by any organization are so boring….right???

But surprisingly this myth has been broken today. I found one training program so interesting and applicable that it felt like I found the hidden truth of life. Life is a mystery, everyone knows. Sometimes we are so much depressed or frustrated or stressed and we feel that we are the most miserable specie in the world.

Our mind knows that there must be some solution but we can’t even see the solutions lying just in front of our eyes.

I learnt a few concepts today but I am going to write down one of them. I believe that you will also find it interesting and helpful in your lives.
One concept that I found really interesting is the Binary theory of our lives as simple as the Binary system in computer studies. If you understand the 0 and 1, then there is nothing in computer studies. But if you are not able to understand these two digits, you can never be successful in this field (Some exceptions are always there ).

The binary theory of life is as simple as I have explained the two digits in the upper paragraph.
• Avoid pain on one end
• Gain Pleasure on the other

Anything that we all human being do, do only for these two “either to avoid pain or to gain pleasure”.
Very simple…right??

And all the emotions (which are infinite) associated with each activity lie down in this spectra only. Nothing other than this.

So from now on, anything you do just remember you are doing it either to avoid pain associated with this or to gain pleasure out of it. For example whether you are avoiding your exercise schedule every day or you are delaying in sending reports to your supervisor or you are rushing to your office or anything.

And also whenever you have any hard feeling in your life for anyone or any situation, think deeply as many times as you want( Nobody has right to stop you) fitting yourself or the other person or the situation in this spectra ( Avoid pain to Gain pleasure), I assure you will get the solution.

One more secret learning I wanna share with you all is:
Secret learning: Whenever you are in doubt..don't go to your boss(Just kidding) but go to your basics.

Note: If anybody has any doubts on it, do share with me. Happy to help.

Sharing experience

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I don’t remember now, how many times I have boarded a train or a flight or a cab for journey. And truly saying, I don’t want to remember.

But I get a mixed type of feeling when people say you must be enjoying your travelling actually I feel confused. I tell them yes I do and then I think I am really not.

During my latest travel, I boarded the Shatabdi and while stepping in I felt “oh, It has become my third home”..

For clarity:

1. One in my home town

2. One in Delhi (rented Flat)

3. Third one - My beloved Shatabdi express

Anyways, that’s not a matter of discussion. One important thing that I realized, trains are the best place to observe and understand Human behavior. All those studying psychology and other subjects regarding Human behavior must be using trains as a tool for their case studies.

I am also in the process of understanding human behavior although I am not doing any specialization in any course relating to human behavior.

I can share some of the important facts with you which can be used whenever you travel to a new destination.

Least preferably, You can choose some stranger to talk who is sitting in the seat adjacent to yours. But as very recently, some more announcements have been included in Indian railways security system which suggests you not to become friendly with strangers. So considering it one of the important announcements, I now prefer to spend time with myself specifically in trains.

Now I am able to prioritize my doings during travelling or I would like to say that I have found my ways to kill the travel time. I can prioritize it in the following way:

• By taking small naps 
• By reading Novel/news paper 
• By watching outside the window 
• By working on my official laptop (Least Favorite) 
• By chatting on mobile phone

I have found one more importance of travelling - if you are somewhat an emotional person like me, you get enough time to think about your relations with your families and your friends. So I suggest you to travel long distances at least twice a year, you will definitely find a solution if you have any kind of question.

And yeah, as you all know the condition of Indian Railways and also the news of recent train accidents sometimes dominates the mind and force us to think of something unwanted. But don’t worry that’s very rare. Otherwise most of the time you are just in the thought of how to kill my travel time. I have found some ways which I have already mentioned above.

Note: After reading “the White Tiger”, I suggest you to take care while travelling by cab. And prefer to involve yourself in reading. And also don’t let the driver know anything about you, so don’t chat on your mobile phone for long.

Well I am still trying to understand it deeply, how to kill my travel time specifically in trains. If you have any suggestions, do let me know.